We go to retreats usually twice a year. There are a couple of us who always sit together. there is one girl who drives my friend up a wall because she is constantly needing assistance; which leaves no time for my friend to go. It got to the point that one day, Nancy looked at Marianne and said" for God's sake, just go sew the darn thing and stop worrying about it". We were not the only ones who noticed Nancy's frustration. All the guild members were wondering what was wrong with her. This woman no longer comes with us but I would have to say, I will be glad to help you at another time, but right now, I need to work on my own project.