What a thought provoking thread! I've really enjoyed reading the responses!!
Earlier this year I was talking to my Mom about what quilts I had coming up- one of rmy daughters bed, and to of my good friends.
My 14 year old son interjected and said "what about one for your bed, Mom?" Sooo- when I finish my daughters quilt I'm doing one for MY bed. She just went up to a full sized bed so I owe her that. LOL! As women we tend to put others before our needs/ desires.