When I was quilting professionally, I had NO time to work on my quilts or charity projects. If you enjoy doing your crocheting, then take time away from quilting and enjoy that hobby. If there is something that you KNOW you will never finish, give it to someone who may enjoy finishing up the project. Being disable, I don't make any larger quilt anymore. I am doing mostly laps and baby quilts for charity and some wall hanging for myself and friends. Take a vacation from quilting and when the time is right, try finishing up just one UFO. You may be choosing projects that may be too complicated for you.