When I first started to quilt (yrs ago )I did not have much time either, by the end of the day something like crocheting was about all I could do, put your feet up and watch TV with the family.
I finally put my quilting on the back burner until I had more time and space for myself. I kept the started quilts that meant the most to me, found a new home for the rest.
When the time was right, several yrs ago, I came back to quilting and I'm truly loving every part and getting my projects done.
So maybe quilting is something you will truly enjoy abit later when you have more time.
For now make a quilt pattern collection of things you want to do. Like a Bride's book

Wait to buy the fabric, colors and prints do change