Billie,
I still remember the wisdom you shared with me when I was at my lowest moment in facing my Mother's life situation the few days after her stroke. The words still comfort me today... "just let her be her and you be you". It helped me let go of the fear and just be present. It is a blessing when the fear begins to evaporate and the love fills that place. I have let go of so much junk that was just cluttering up my thinking.
I pray courage for you and Mr. Bill to let love lead the way!