I had the opposite happen recently, I was looking at a section of fabrics forever, and the sales person came over and mentioned that I take pictures, something I hadn't even thought of. They also had a lovely table runner, and I asked if I could take a picture of it, and they said absolutely ! taking photos in stores is the wave of the future. Also, they shouldn't assume the intent is bad, she may be working on a quilt with someone who couldn't get to the store, and needed their input. Also, when I make things for children, I always get pre approval from mom's first, to see if they like it or have other ideas in mind. with family living in other states, I have to send pictures.