Arizona quilt
Maybe she really doesn't want a quilt. If she's older as you say she may have too many possessions now she doesn't need.
I have a sweet friend that I've made a Minkee throw for but he turned it down claiming it wasn't long enough for him. I sensed he was embarrassed to receive my gift. Was awkward for both of us.
I sure understand your wanting to do this for your friend but if she's said no I'd give it a second thought.