It looks like some designers are so full of themselves - they love something, so you should, too. You should make everything to their specs and their vision. They invented it, and you need to bow to the creativity of the designer.
They can stick that ___________ ( you fill in the blank.)
Why do we quilt? We also love creating, fabric and technique, but it seems that most of us change it so the end results are "our" vision, rather than strictly the designer's.
There seems to be more outcry in the tech field. A developer makes an app, then "improves" it and most people hate the improvement which seems to shock the original developer. We can, however, delete the app.
You would have to give yourself enough leeway to change the pattern for a similar one that is not so restrictive.