So far I've heard that there is indeed a product out there, but the lady couldn't remember what....I'm off to do more research...
Ok, apparently there are professional fabric restoration people. I took my quilt to a local dry cleaners that specializes in wedding gowns. For the most part the quilt was in excellent condition, but apparently could still suffer some damage by dry cleaning it.
Personally, I had not gotten emotionally attached to my new quilt yet, so I took mine in. BDor, I am guessing it is up to you if you want to take it to a professional to see if they can help you out, or like many of the websites I've seen say, accept those stains as character marks and cherish it as is! Unless one of the fine ladies on here has some secret cleaning weapon! :P