Thanks everyone, I never knew how to tell the right side from the wrong side but now I do... Thanks sop much..
getting back to my quilt I think I will leave it as it is ...I just don't want to have to take all the pins out and then there is the thing about the spray basting that would have me worried... it looks ok but as I look at it closer I can see where it would look better with the short side showing..as far as asking my friend I think I will just quilt it and say nothing, it still looks ok and it is soft so should be ok with her... but next time ,if there is one, I will know how to tell the right side... Thanks everyone for your support...I always can count on you ladies for your help on anything..Thanks so much...will post some pictures when it is done..