Annie, I don't know what i'd do. This type of situation causes alot of problems. The parents are the ones at fault here, they are the ones that are responsible for these monsters. If you want a relationship with this man and family, something needs to be worked out with paying for the damage now. I'm sorry this happened to you, and good luck with this, it will probably be a ugly mess if you choose to stay with this family. You deserve better, and there is better out there. I would rather be alone.