There is a saying that I am striving to accomplish. Dear Lord, keep your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth. However, I think I would have made a comment in the context, "I know you have been sick, and I am glad to help you out, but I think the batting should be between the fabrics. I will help you fix it if you want me to." Like the other members have mentioned, I would have to say something. Good luck