When our daughter married we paid for wedding and also paid for luxury honeymoon. When son got married we gave him cheque for cost of daughters wedding plus paid for luxury honeymoon. The honeymoons were the "board" money our children paid to us when they finished their education but still lived at home. We had no need of the money but made sure they knew that it costs to live somewhere. So we just saved the money for them and when they got married it meant they could have a memorable honeymoon.