I live in glasgow, MT. with the live chat, you just have to jump right in and keep coming back--that way you'll get to "know" people and it really is enjoyable. i try to do the chat at least a couple of times a week. Also, try one of the many swaps that they have on here, that's an awesome way to get to know ppl too! Glad to have you aboard and not being a wallflower anymore!! enjoy!!