I really have enjoyed this topic and the responses this morning, great ones!!
My trust issues lately are around being able to function/ find anything after I move next month -- I've been in this place over 7 years, the longest in one spot for over 25 years.
And in my body -- which has often let me down in the past 6-7 years;
and the things my mother does in my house -----
She's 90 now, so there's an excuse and a reason I suppose, but when I go to a drawer to find my new checks and discover it already packed for the move next month -- after I TOLD her 3x I would need access to the things in it, do NOT pack it yet, and it's the fourth time this week I can't find something I need to still live before the move 5 weeks away, IT MAKES ME CRAZY!!
Yes, I appreciate that she wants to help. Yes I am more than grateful she is still with me. Yes, it's amazing she is able to still drive over from her own apartment to do these things with/for me. Still it's a stressful time and the trust issues are NOT helping!!!
Jan in VA