The only suggestion that I can add is to try different kinds of gloves. My first pair was garden gloves with the little nubs on them. I found them too stiff. My next pair was cotton knit work gloves with nubs, and I think they work really well.
I'm still learning, but each quilt gets a little better. Both pairs were really cheap, so I didn't mind trying a different kind.
I like your quilt and respect the heck out of you for trying!!
Sue