Justflyingin, in my little town in the suburbs, no one has time to enjoy walking the supermarket aisles with the spouse. I enjoy doing it with him for fun, and then go home and cook up a storm, but we are always on the go and barely have time to gook what we buy! It's easier now the kids are gone, but it didn't take us long to fill in those hours not at games and concerts and parades etc. with other interests.
And yes, my husband would probably recognize everything I wear, unless it was something put away for years, or maybe boring jeans or underwear. I buy classic styles, take good care of what I buy and keep clothes forever. I'm wearing shoes I've owed for 20 years. I'm wearing a silk top that I bought sometime before 1990, can't remember when.
It is not about the money. He likes looking at me! And I like looking good! Woo-woo!!!