My husband is an enabler. He is a math PhD, and sometimes takes blocks that I have laid out on the table and changes them around to something he would like better. Usually it is something that is impossible to do with those particular blocks. Later I put them together like I had planned and he never says anything about it. He loves my quilts, especially the ones with geometric patterns.
In our town, lots of couples go grocery shopping together, especially on Tuesday morning when seniors get 5% off. We have a lot of Hispanics here, and they often go shopping as a family. When DH and I go shopping, he takes his cart and I take mine. Sometimes I drop something into his cart if I see him as we walk around. When I'm finished, I get out my cell phone and call him on his. Then we go check out together. That cell phone is a God-send.