I don't hide. My husband is sometimes kinda smart about the fabric I buy. When I get a package in the mail, he comes through the door and throws it in my lap. Not so nicely either. I am paying for fabric I want with the money from fabric I sold. He buys all these stupid guns that he never uses so, I don't cut him any slack. I will buy what I want, when I want, just like he does. I have to fill out the paperwork when he buys those guns so technically, they belong to me!