I have had good luck with Grandma's Spot Remover:
http://www.amazon.com/Grandmas-Secre...dp/B0021JD2S0/
It may be available locally for you. What I like about this stain remover is (1) it almost always works, and (2) it doesn't bleach or weaken the fabric. Just follow the directions about how long to leave it on before washing the quilt.
I am not convinced that drying will affect ease of getting the stain out. It's always better to use a stain remover product before drying, but it may not matter.