I think you can look at it two ways. If you absolutely don't want to make her a quilt and/or don't think she would value it, then get tough and say I don't have time, sorry. If you want to make quilts without being dictated to or on a timeline then say come with me and pick out one fabric you like and I will build it from there and you will see it when it gets done but I can't give a definite time when it will be complete because it is a creative process.