I usually turn down requests by saying I have a long list of quilts to make, so won't have time. This is a true statement too. I have made quilts for my kids and grandkids. All except one I have chosen the patterns and fabric myself. I did allow my grandson to pick his pattern from patterns I have collected. I have made quilts for a few friends, but it is always a surprise from me with the fabric and pattern of my choice. Quilting is my joy, and I don't want to be stressed with deadlines or specific requests. My kids usually claim a quilt if they see it before I finish making it. I have been able to keep very few of my quilts.