How do you take it?
If/When someone is not excited about a gift that has been lovingly crafted for them - - -
How do you deal with it?
Do you feel like you were personally rejected?
Do you just shrug it off?
Do you "start small" to see how the person takes care of gifts before going straight to making a king-size quilt for him/her?
I have found that some people really do prefer a gift certificate - or a store-bought gift (with return receipt enclosed) to something that has been made "at home."
It's okay - it usually costs less - and has saved me a lot of time and energy.