I have a top load, large capacity washer--use a full tub, cold water, and my regular liquid detergent--plus 3-4 color catchers. I lay the quilt out on a sheet covered piece of plastic in the basement to dry usually, but sometimes I will put it in the dryer on perma prest setting. My DIL (with 10 month, 22 month and 7yr boys)told me she was so glad that all the quilts I've made them are wash and dry so they can actually use them. Me too!