Bee I love my family but have found I am set in my ways and enjoy my life. Oldest dd is here, she is in her 40's and on Her own and there is little room for compromise in her life. The rest of us all tip toe around her and make faces at each other. I know shame on us. Tomorrow she leaves for 9 days and then will come back for a week. It has just been one thing after another this summer. Boring is wonderful