I always press on the wrong side no matter what with the exception of sleeves then turn down the heat. I rarely have to do that. I bought a top from Walmart that has embroidery with polyester and it was like little needles. I sewed a cotton backing with red cotton thread (same color as top) on it and clipped the excess away. DH thought I was crazy but you can't see it and much more comfortable.
Guys attitude and work first time would've kept me from going back. Glad you found some one else.