Oh dear. Onebyone I am sorry that some people do not take kindly to honest criticism. I am also sorry that some people feel they have to criticise your honest opinion. At least they did it in a PM instead of starting a major confrontation on a post. I suppose there is one solution--if you don't have something nice or constructive to say, keep you hands off the keyboard. But then the original poster might continue on a totally ugly route instead of rethinking her choices because of your honest opinion. Rock and a hard place.