I am from the school of "It's how you say things". Pose your thoughts asking us our opinions, give your own thoughts on what you think of your project; but if you 'sincerely' want to know what 'we' would do with 'your' work, ask us "What would 'you' do?" I think many do just that, and as we all are our own creative person, those who respond are being honest. I agree with many responses to your thread, especially Genden. I don't have other quilters or sewers in my family or circle of friends. I choose not to belong to groups or guilds, etc. So like many others, I don't always see or know what a good solution is, and that is a great reason to keep logging in to the Board.