Originally Posted by
feline fanatic
. . . Some people also do the passive aggressive thing with self deprecating remarks when they are fishing for compliments. . . .
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I can usually recognize those.
If it appears to me that the person has asked something like - "does it matter - does it show - should it be changed?"
I will (sometimes) express an opinion with an option/suggestion.
The final decision is with the maker of the quit - but if the question is asked - I do not understand why others should object if suggestions are made in a kindly manner.
Sometimes "good enough" or "finished" is the right choice.
I know that something that I consider a noticeable/fixable error (on my work) is as bothersome to me as wearing my shoes on the wrong feet and my underwear on backwards.