Just tell her to give you her contact information and you will send her the link unless of course you can tell her the website. Me, I have asked for patterns' links. I always assume they got it off the internet. No excuses needed. Just the info plain and simple. She could download it right off her phone or iPad or tablet. She will find out if she needs to pay for it. If she finds there is a cost and asks you for it, then you can tell her you paid for it and she can too. I have no problem telling someone, there is a cost and they need to go to the site to download.