I'm sorry your husband made you feel bad about it... but you shouldn't. (Men are just insensitive jerks sometimes, LOL.) As others have said, it's just part of quilting. It means you have high standards for yourself and when your quilt isn't looking like you had envisioned, you correct it. I often try out a quilting idea and if I don't like it I am more than willing to sit and rip out the sts to be able to try something else. The resulting quilt is always worth it. Please don't be depressed!