Well, I have lots of time and interest so I ask for 2 partners. This is especially nice when I have 2 ideas. None of my
partners get short changed. If the hostess does not want to give any of us two partners, I'll certainly abide by her decision.
I like to send a pair of mug rugs and a pair of napkins. Maybe something else homemade. That's my style. Now, I'll rethink my participation and generosity. I will play by the rules.