ctyankee, Steve reads her those cards and then takes them to her when he goes to Montana to see her. He does work 2 jobs so not alot of time but he does go. I think he talks to her on the phone if he can't make the trip, 220 miles. It's hard on him too but sometimes you have to do things that keep life a little organized if that makes sense. I call her and sometimes get an answer and sometimes not. She actually could go to rehab anytime, when the virus clears, and when I get an actual address I will post so if anyone would like to send a card that would be great. When I talk to her I will let her know she is not forgotten on this amazing board! Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.