Mary B, mad money is money we have saved or stock piled, usually with out hubbys knowledge, lol, for something we want or think we need.
. What do you call it in your country??? Please don't tell me you all don't do anything so deceptive!..........well after thinking about it this is not being deceptive, it's being ___________________ (please put in any positive word here).
Susan I agree with the babysteps on cleaning and rearranging. Some times I set a timer and when it goes off I walk away and go back after a coffee break etc.