Thought you might like to hear the end of the story. I emailed the company in Utah hoping they might help. Then I got an email from the person who sold it, in New York! I'm still wondering about that, but he asked for pictures and the model number, which I emailed back and he emailed me back with exactly what I was look for, the cables and where they plugged in. Also a button to press to make all the connections. Did as the picture instructed and…success!!! The only thing I can't get working is the bobbin winder. Will only work when I run the machine back and forth along the leaders. Not a problem. Just another funky thing in my life. Have quilted two baby quilts since and I'm happy. Now to load the 90x96 double batted monster!
Thank you all for your help!!!