Originally Posted by
elnan
I think each person who reads Miriam's thought provoking posts from the wee hours of the morning will come up with "the point" that applies to him or her. I see it as something akin to the prose of CD in Oklahoma.
Where has CD been? I haven't seen any thing from him in a very long time.
Yes, I agree, what point applies to you?
I, too had an autism spectrum child and now some DGKs as well with varying degrees of issues - each have been dealt with differently. I tried the harness and it was a nightmare... Not judging...
One in-law chose assisted living - parents made other choices. None are easy, convenient or necessarily to everyone's advantage. As mentioned above, it is choices that have to be made then lived with.
Life gets dirty some times doesn't it.
Every choice has consequences.
I guess it is a matter of what makes you feel you did the right thing - but is it?