You can't judge a lifestyle by what you see from the outside. Unless you see or know there is neglect or abuse, let families be. And just for the record, those older children you see in strollers and/or walkers may have disabilities and be unable to walk and the majority of the elderly in nursing homes are there because they have special needs that can't be provided to them at home and not because the families don't want to take care of them. Life is full of choices and we all get to make our own.