There is an elderly guild member who took it upon herself to save all the disposable diaper coupons for me when my grandbaby was born. The child is now 3 and she still brings me dozens of coupons every month. I thank her and mention several times the child is now potty trained. She says that's nice and still brings me the coupons. I realized it made her feel good and gave her something to do for someone. I don't use the coupons but she doesn't have to know that. Same with our guild's bad charity donations. The person in charge decides to 'let it go' and no one needs to be the wiser.