I'd feel very pressured for time if we shortened the deadline. I have six kids that I home school and ferry to and fro (music lessons....CAP.....orthodontist appts, etc....) and a farm full of animals to feed, care for, milk, etc.... I fit my sewing in whenever I can. Joining the swaps keeps me motivated and on my toes sewing wise.
If everyone wants to do twice-monthly projects for this new swap, I totally understand. I'd just not be able to participate. I also have RA and have to keep the stress/pace down.
Just my 2 centavos.