The quilt in your avatar would be perfect with these shirts in the neutral positions. The add the stars in colors that remind you of him or think she likes. To be a memory quilt the whole quilt does not have to be made of just the shirts; he was likely more than the clothing he wore. And with their fabrics worked in among other fabrics, she will spend time looking for the ones she recognizes, making her memories linger as she 'discovers' them. How kind of her to do this for her.
Jan in VA