People steal from each other, no doubt about it. The quilt I made for my mom in the nursing home got stolen. I made her another one and embroidered her first and last name on it in 5 inch letters, this one did not get stolen. After my mom passed away I gave it to a homeless person. In my opinion ugly or pretty is in the eye of the beholder. I've seen many quilts that I thought are ugly on this board but many think they are beautiful. As long as it's functional and you are giving it from your heart it doesn't matter. Give it to who you want and what happens, happens, once you gave it away it's no longer yours and you have no control over it.