Originally Posted by Peckish

My first thought was an adjustable strap, so it could be adjusted to whatever's appropriate. The girl will be able to lengthen it as she grows.

I'm the mom of only boys, so I will defer to others regarding what is "safe". But I think there comes a point where we have to stop wrapping our kids up in bubble wrap and protecting them from everything. I had all manner of purses with straps as a child and there was never an issue. I also roller skated without knee pads, drank from the garden hose, rode bikes without a helmet, and ran unsupervised around the neighborhood until the street lights went on. My best friend's 15 year old son is so scared of hurting himself that he refuses to try anything athletic or outdoorsy. I don't think that's a way to live life.

Off my soapbox now.