My suggestion is that when you hear from a few of the quilters, tell them the same things you have told us and ask them how to get together. One of them might know of a good place to meet, just to meet. Or, you could invite them to your home, like you were thinking. That would work fine for a small group. You may not even want to get together to sew the first few times, maybe just sort of a Show and Tell"? (I know others warn about meeting at your home, but I don't think it is such a bad idea. However, ask them where you all could meet first. One of them might be full of ideas.)
I admire you for stepping out and just know this will work well for you. Quilters just seem to be friendly helpful people, and somehow I know that is what you will find.
Dina