Pasovasz I had to laugh at your quote. Back in the day, we were getting approved as Foster Parents so we could do respite care for friends who were adopting kids through the foster system. They came to inspect our house and I asked them to come after our cleaning lady came. She told me that wasn't necessary. When she got to our house and saw our kid (and other) clutter all over she said: Oh I'm so relieved. People who have perfect houses do NOT make good foster parents. You're (cluttered) house looks great! It was then I stopped worrying about the clutter.