Rose funny you should say that...I decided next weekend, I am going to go out, and get a cake, and some balloons, and stuff to make a fancy dinner, and I am going to throw myself a little party, me the kids, games music, ice cream, and yummy foods! I think I deserve it...It's not that no one bothered to get me a card, or cake or present or anything, Not that they did..but I wasn't upset about it, thats normal... it was the hours and hours of fighting between "hubby" and me, and sitting alone the majority of the day crying....