Keep working at it, you'll develop what works for you. Amazon and some of the sewing/quilting catalogs sell a Sewing Bird clamp that will help in some instances. Do an internet search for "sewing with one hand" and you will find some answers plus awareness that there are a lot of people out there searching for ways to overcome loss of a hand due to stroke. Unfortunately, there are more asking than answering, but those who answer are offering some gems. Don't give up, you may pave the way for someone else. I admire your spunk.