We have all been in your shoes in one way or another with friends from our pasts. You have been incredibly proactive, and your beautiful quilt will definitely fulfill your hopes of comfort for her family. As a daughter who lost my Mom to this devastating disease there is no way to know how much of the comforting words on the quilt may penetrate and minister to her, but it will be more than she will be able to articulate. Your efforts will be a blessing, trust & take comfort in that.