um, zozee, I'm not sure anybody here is THAT serious.
We love our families, but it does hurt to have your things ruined.
She was just venting among ppl that would understand.
She's forgave him already I am sure.
Not being assertive and saying, "You hurt me when you did that"...that's
not the Golden Rule.
She'll wait till she's calmed down to say something, or she may not
say anything.
Around here we share with the motto:
You use it-ok. ( I do NOT share scissors though!)
You break it, you replace it.
Now THAT'S fair and golden. 
Have a nice day today.
Last edited by Mousie; 04-28-2016 at 07:54 AM.