I'm saying the tones are here sound quite serious. If you're not, then how about an emoji or an LOL? I do think some ppl are livid. As fur the Golden Rule, I'm referring to those commenters' remarks who aren't giving this guy a break. I'm sure the SIL has been forgiven by his MIL but how about from some of those here who sound ready to lop off his head. I'm not downplaying the cost of $25 scissors. I just do not understand how ppl get worked so worked up about someone else's situation that they say things. Calling someone stupid?