Okay I finished it!!
I took the top to the quilt store to look around for a dark border. I picked up a dark one and placed it on the table and decided out loud that was the one. The lady at the store said no you can't put that with that quilt it's too country. The fabric in my quilt are all modern - she was right. So I ask her to pick me out something.
She pulls one out and I tell her I'll take it. Nope apparently that's not the one either lol. Wouldn't let me buy it and said I need to try out a bunch. Normally I would but I told her how I wasn't invested and just wanted to finish it but we eventually found a modern print that matched well. It was lighter than I anticipated but I think it works well! I bought a dark fabric for binding to give it some pop.
I was going to do a small inner white border but when I was assembling it I just had a meh moment and just got 'er done! Simple line quilting and voila!
I really really appreciate all of your wonderful comments. Even though I'm not in love with the colours I'm glad I finished it and I'm proud of it! I have a neighbor in mind that might like a more soothing quilt.
Oh and I love that butterfly quilt!!